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Saturday, August 21, 2010

吃醋的味道 = 酸里带点甜❤

曾经在一本书里看过这么一句传世名言:世上不吃饭的女人还找得出几个,但不吃醋的女人一个也没有。


吃醋一词,平日生活里最通俗易见的一个词。


在恋爱初期,她的味道本来就是甜的。吃醋,貌似是爱情里的小性子,其实又是验证我们心智的试金石。

不吃醋的爱情永远不存在...

""这一词用在爱情上,不仅是调味品,更是营养品,而且按常理公式,醋的浓度和爱的强度应该成正比。

在恋爱里添点油吃点醋是非常必要的,不然很可能就在索然无味里断送了二人的未来。不管你是不是经常偷偷摸摸地吃,还是偶尔光明正大地吃,一旦出现有威胁有证据的嫌疑女,醋不仅要吃,还要很吃,把他出轨的意图淹没溶解在你的醋缸里。


大凡女人都会吃醋的,因为这是女人的天性所致,女人天生具有很强的依赖心理,这就注定了女人对男人的看守是无微不至的那种关注。爱一个人就会很倾心地缠着他,有时恨不得将他拴在自己的身上,可是就是拴了也不放心。


女人心眼小,所以女人向爱人表达爱的方式也就显得心胸狭窄,不含蓄,稍有风吹草动就会醋劲上窜。往往让女人吃醋的原因是让自己吃醋的那个"对方"长的漂亮、气质好等等,或许是因为看着心里既是羡慕又是嫉妒,当自己产生相比较的想法后,心里就有了难耐的酸楚滋味了。

女人的"吃醋"不怀任何恶意,那是爱的独特的表现。女人"吃醋"时的那种神态,令人回味不已。假装动怒、发小脾气、杏眼圆睁,似乎要与男人一刀两断。其实只要男人陪个不是,"吃醋"的目的达到了,她马上会多云转晴,笑上娇颜。


其实女人要是不吃醋,男人会很受伤——他们认为一定是自己的魅力不够,在女人眼里成了"安全型"。真正是:女人吃醋,男人会烦,不吃醋,他又担心。

爱情中的女人大多泡在醋坛子里,因为她要牵着他的心,因为她要得到他的爱,醋劲愈大,爱劲愈深。从不吃醋的女人绝不会是个生动的女人。

真正聪明的女人,她在打翻醋坛子的时候,乘机也添加了一些调味品,比如理解,比如信任。她让醋坛子倒地时发出的那种刺耳的声音,顿然变得那么柔和,以至于使对方内心有了一种歉疚感,以后对自己便更加关爱。


她懂得化腐朽为神奇,天性流露也要讲究"",在乎他,无需风云大闹,弄得他下不了台。尖酸的女人,在男人眼里就不可爱了。

天下的男人们可不是傻瓜。你吃醋,吃了多少,他当然自然清楚,因此,切不可过量食用。健康杂志上还说:"空腹时切忌吃醋,以免胃酸分泌过多而伤胃。"因此,聪明的女人吃醋的时候千万不要空穴来风,还是要有几分人证或物证垫底的情况下再好好地吃。


女人,不管你以哪种方式吃醋,吃什么醋,吃多少醋,都要切记吃的是醋,亮出来的是爱!

Tuesday, August 10, 2010

Dear^^ Pls n0e tat~

If you really love me, please don't give up me!!!

If 1 day I turn 2 leave, please hold me and don't let me go around...
If 1 day I let u go, please get hold my hand n don't break free...
If 1 day I don't sms with you, please remember to sms / call me, don't let you fade out of my life...

You seems to be very simple so I don't wan to let you have mix emotions...
You seems very optimistic so I don't want to give you negative emotions...
You seems to be pure so I don't want you to think to much...

I'm so happy when I'm together with you~
I'm fully trust you~

When you turn and left, all the problem come one after another...
Sometimes I will feel lonely when you're not beside me...
Sometimes I will feel not safe when you're not beside me...
Sometimes I will feel heavy when you're not beside me...
Sometimes I will feel contradictory when you're not beside me...

If got this day, can you please don't give up??

If 1day I turn and leave, it's because I'm too tired to camouflage smile to you...
I don't want you to see the tired me...
If 1day no longer holding your hand, that's because my heart has too many bad factors beating inside it...
I don't want the bad pass to you by my hand...
If 1day I don't sms and call you, that's because I'm facing some problems and I don't want to border you with such burden...

Maybe you'll forget me...
But doesn't mean that I don't miss you, don't care you and don't worry about you!!!

If really reach the day, how will you do???
If really reach the day, will you tolerate my capricious???
If really reach the day, will you retain me???
If really reach the day, will you give up me???

I know that love isn't missing then find again, get tired then change again...
If really have a day, will I suddenly capricious and let you misunderstanding our fate has end, our love has gone???
If really have a day, that's just because I'm tired!!
There are too many helpless that I can't afford... So I need to rest...
Not because I change, Love light up!!

If really have a day, I hope you can use your love to soothe my tired mind...
If really have a day, I hope you can don't give up and determined clearly our love...
If really have a day, please don't let me leave!!!

You can't see the tears at my back when I turn back...
You can't listen the sound heartbreak when I turn back...
You can't feel the pain of heartbroke when I turn back...
After we turn, is a pass... Then go our seperate way, a distant parts...

Don't doubt that I have new love, I love nostalgia!!!
Don't doubt my love, I won't love less than you!!!
Don't doubt there are more suitable boys for me, the right not love!!!

If 1 day when i leave, please remember :
If you love me, don't sat bless me...
What i want is just the happiness you gave me!!!
If you love me, then don't say you will find a better 1...
You are the best in my world!!!
If you love me, don't say you can't give me what I want...
I want you to know that I like all the things you give me!!!
If you love me, please remember to tell me you'll wait for me...
I'll be bac... Do you remember the same word I told you???
If you love me, tell me that you give up me but not give up our love...
Then I certainly would not choose to leave...

If really have a day, maybe my left is only for your stay...
Perhaps my tears just because I wanted you to help me to rub it off...
Perhaps my lonely just to help you get rid off...
Perhaps my concern is for your comfort...
Maybe sometimes I just wanna borrow your shoulder...
Maybe sometimes just wanna you to give me warmth...
Maybe sometimes just wanna to listen your comfort...

If really have a day, don't let me turn around with regret...
If you really love me, no matter happen what, when and where...
Please tighten me and don't give up me and let me go...

I have the courage to love when we are together...
Without you, I can't stay strong...

Saturday, August 7, 2010

What boys should do??

♥ When she feels sad, she will always hope that you're beside her...

♥ If she is moody, please always beside her... Even if you're busy / doing things also doesn't matter, because she also missing you...

♥ As a boyfriend, no matter how far are you, please beside her as fast as possible when she need you... Saw her without anything, just give her a big soft hug...

♥ If you invite her to go out with your friends, you can hug her and said to your friend," this is my girlfriend..."

♥ When you go out with her, You can hugging her / holding her... Don't because of your friend and kept a distance with her...

♥ When she is afraid of something, such as afraid of heights / crossing the road, please hold her and let her feel safe...

♥ If you two are in far distance, you may occasionally go look for her, let her know that you miss her... Because she wanted to see you but don't know how to meet you...

♥ When she said "I miss You..." You should replied "I'm missing you too..." Similarly, when she said "I love you..." You shoud replied her “I love her..." too...

♥ Savage is the nature of girls, she is willing to savage with others, that's because she would like you to accommodate her more...

♥ If she is angrying about you, please forgive her because this is the reaction of love... If she don't love you, she wouldn't feel anything...

♥ She like to think too much is because she would like to have a good future with you, because she reali love you so will worry about the problem between you and her...

♥ Boyfriend should to more thing that can clearly show that you love her, let her know you care about her, so you two wil have more long-term...

Friday, August 6, 2010

Tis type of girls^^

There is such a woman, they are silly...
Seemingly very fickleness but is very specific...
Seemingly very strong, but in fact, they are fragile than anyone else...
Seemingly very happy, but the sad behind the smile...
Who understand it???

Sometimes, such people are in self-tortune...
Obviously love each others, rather to sad, but also choose to let go...
They turn to leave, let the tears free out...

Sometimes, this type of girls are easy to understand...
They are afraid of loneliness, because when they are alone, they will go off into wild flights of fancy...
They will think the sad story, and clearly remembered the fuzzy face...
Because when they are alone, they will feel no sense of security...
Their demands are always so low, as long as their lover is accompaying them...

Sometimes, these women are very sensitive, very easy to suspicion...
A look, a movement will make them jumpy all the day...
So boys, if you love them...
Don't let them panic, don't let them hurt...

Sometimes, these kind of woman pathos...
They aren't sentimental, but easily leave behind only...
They like to use words to describe their feelings, and this is their sustenance way...

Sometimes, this group of girls are in comtradiction...
Is to continued, or suspend???
Is to give up, or persist???
They seems sensibility, but often at the last let the reason to control the whole rational thinking...

Sometimes, this type of women are afraid to see others people's sweet...
They are not jealous, but will feel it is like themselves...
They will be lost into the memories of past pain, wait their past to awakened thier consciousness, then slowly licking thier wounds and pain...

Sometimes, these women are very persistent...
And Sometimes they don't understand what they are insist on...
They are expecting that the outcome of the story doesn't end or wait for more danger???
They are just stupid...
When they are in love, they will like a doll, abitrarily thinkering...

These type of woman..
Has too many shortcomings, tempers stinks too...
A bit caprisious, and sensitive to suspicious...
So either do not close them, or treat them with sincerity and true heart...
Because their heart will easily brittle, can't afford the hurt...

Miss You - Westlife

I can't sleep I just can't breathe
When your shadow is all over me baby
Don't wanna be a fool in your eyes

'Cause what we had was built on lies
And when our love seems to fade away
Listen to me hear what I say I don't wanna feel the way that I do
I just wanna be right here with you
I don't wanna see, see us apart
I just wanna say it straight from my heart I miss you...

What would it take for you to see
To make you understand that I'll always believe
You and I can make it through
And I still know I can't get over you

'Cause when our love seems to fade away
Listen to me hear what I say
I don't wanna feel the way that I do
I just wanna be Right here with you
I don't wanna see, see us apart
I just wanna say it straight from my heart
Oh baby I miss you I do

'Cause when our love always fades away
Listen to me hear what I say
I don't wanna feel the way that I do
I just wanna be right here with you
I don't wanna see, see us apart
I just wanna say it straight from my heart
I miss you I miss you

I do The way that I do
I just wanna be right here with you
I don't wanna see, see us apart
I just wanna say it straight from my heart
Oh baby I miss you I do